some thoughts from the alternative world...

I looked into my other circle today and got some interesting notes on the alternatives...

read on..

Quote:Originally Posted by bboycrumbs84
Making a choice to come out about your sexuality is a healthy part of affirming your choice and your worth as a human being. By discussing what it does and does not mean to be who you are sexually, you may also help to educate others and even to empower some individuals to accept their own sexuality and realizing that is good to discover sexuality in all ways.

my thoughts:
its always hard to come out to your friends and family and tell them what you really are underneath that clothes or that facade.
that is never easy because there might be rejections and then the stigma happens all over again as if it hasn't been working through the most parts of your life.
but in this age, i think more people are open to it...open to the accepting sexuality and the differences that friends bring into the circle...and its good because you somehow feel that the society gets more humane into accepting whatever differences it brings on the daily fold.
to those who come out in the open...congratulations...coming out is not just really putting a label to what you know you are...but moreso, getting the real freedom of life that one truly deserve.
to those who cannot come out...its their choice to live in the closet..and for whatever reason they have...i'd always give them that choice to make...afterall..it is their life to live.
happy independence guys..

Quote:Originally Posted by bboycrumbs84
It is nice to be with people who are very open minded.

my thoughts:
There is nothing wrong to be liberated in making decisions in life especially the so called "sexuality" but its just that we need to keep our values within us.
somehow ur values would be changing when you come out in the open...you widen your horizon and then take new things into consideration.
the principles that you have actually built when you were in the closet would still be applicable into most situations but of course you will do some bending of rules from time to time if only because you are now open to alot more possibilities that were not options for you when you are in the closet still.

Originally Posted by voltz87
and it's you, the real you, if one does is to always blindly deny the truth of his/her own sexuality then he/she wouldn't be able to enjoy a good life. this is what i told myself when i really tried hard to change my sexuality, wala eh ayaw talaga eh

my thoughts:
hmm. i've always believed naman that sexuality isn't just the private organs that you were born with.
it is also something that you feel inside you.
for instance, a byukonera would always feel that she is a girl trapped inside that body..whether he chooses to change her organs in the future when he can afford to...or not...he would always remain to be that woman inside that body.
in the past, i tried to deny myself with homosexuality and for two or three months i was successful until the fourth month...
on that fourth month, i did things i never thought i would kasi sobrang "nagutom" yata ako..haha.
but when I asked God kung bakit nga ba iba ako sa mga kapatid ko at sa mga friends ko...i didn't get a straight answer but i got acceptance little by little...from myself and from my friends and family...
to which I always think na it was God's way of showing me that I have to accept myself first and then acceptance and peace from the others would come along.
afterall...God's love really has no gender.